Politeness is an important part of everyday interactions. Understanding the many different ways of saying how are you in French, and what is culturally expected of you will certainly be useful.
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When Do We Ask How Are You in France?
I’d like to start this free lesson with a cultural point. I lived in the US for 17 years. Over there, when entering a shop, or even at a cash register, it is not unusual for the attendant to ask ‘how are you today’ to their customers.
This is not at all the case in France. In France, if you asked ‘how are you’ to a person you don’t know, they would be extremely surprised.
We typically only ask ‘how are you’ to people we are acquainted with.
Now let’s see the different ways of asking ‘how are you’ in French.
5 Classical Ways To Ask How Are You in French
Comment allez-vous ?
“Comment Allez-vous” is a very common way to ask ‘how are you’ in French. It’s also what you are likely to have learned in school. It uses the vous form, so could be used with a person you are being formal with, or a group of people. Watch out for the strong liaison between the final “t” of “comment” and the “a” of “allez”.
Comment vas-tu ?
Asking “Comment vas-tu ?” is also very common in France nowadays. It uses the same question form as “comment allez-vous”, called inversion in French, but at the “tu” form. So, the language register is still quite formal, even though you are using “tu”.
Comment ça-va ?
“Comment ça-va ?” is in the same line, using inversion. This is a more general way of saying ‘how are you’ in French. More like ‘how are things’ rather than ‘how are you’.
Ça va ?
“Ça va ?” is the short form of “comment ça-va”. The “comment” is implied. “Ça va ?” is convenient because it can be used as a question and as an answer: you just change the tone for the answer: “Ça va ?”.
The language register is casual. I’d say the English equivalent would be “you’re OK?”.
Note: we use “Ça va ?” also when we suspect someone can be physically or emotionally distressed. So, to check on someone.
What does “sa va” mean in French?
Used in texting to avoid the typing the inconvenient ‘ç’, “sa va” is making an appearance on the French language world. It may be OK if you’re texting or a French teen… Otherwise, I strongly suggest you stay away from it. In my humble opinion, it’s still better to type “ca va” than “sa va”…
This info may be useful to you.
How to type a “c with cedilla” ç?
- on windows, type ‘ then c.
- Windows: UK Extended, click AltGr and c at the same time.
- Apple: hold option key and c
- Iphone: press and hold the letter c.
Care to add more? Leave me a comment and I’ll add it to the article.
11 Ways of Asking “How Is X Doing” In French
If you didn’t want to ask specifically ‘how are YOU’ but rather ‘how is she’, ‘how are they’ etc… you’d have to be careful to use the verb “aller” in French.
Watch Out! Use Aller, Not Être With These “How Are You” in French.
With the expressions above, we don’t use the verb to be in French. We use to go: “aller”.
So whether you’re asking ‘how are you’ or ‘how are they’, you’re going to be using one conjugation of aller. In the present indicative: je vais, tu vas, il va, nous allons, vous allez, ils vont. And apply the rules of inversion.
- Comment vas-tu ?
How are you? – “tu” form.
- Comment va-t-il ?
How is he?
- Comment va-t-elle ?
How is she?
- Comment va-t-on ?
How is one/people – not very used at all.
- Comment allons-nous ?
How are we – quite unlikely to ask this question
- Comment allez-vous ?
How are you? – “vous” form.
- Comment vont-ils ?
How are they?
- Comment vont-elles ?
How are they? (feminine)
- Comment vont vos parents ?
How are your parents ?
How To Say ‘How Are Things ?’ in French
This may come as a surprise to some students of French, but you can also use these constructions to ask ‘how are things’ in French… So you could ask about impersonal things like work, or a part of your body that was hurting…
- Comment va votre travail ?
How is you work going?
- Ton épaule, ça va (mieux) ?
How is your shoulder? Is you shoulder better?
- Ça va la santé ?
How is your health?
And then of course, we have expressions which may not use “aller”.
4 Expressions To Say ‘How Are You’ in French
There are many expressions to ask ‘how are you in French’. You need to understand them, but I’d be careful about using them… Expressions are more or less trendy. My Dad may ask “ça gaze ?” and you may hear it in a movie from the seventies… It’s only used today in a sort of tongue in cheek way.
Pretty much all these expression belong the the casual slang register an mean are things OK? They can be used as a question and an answer.
Often instead of using “ça”, we’d use “tout” : “tout roule”, “tout baigne”… ?
Alors si tout roule, on continue…
So if it’s all dandy, let’s carry on…
11 Ways of Asking ‘How Are You Doing’ in French
It’s very common nowadays to ask ‘how are you doing’ using… well, an answer really… Sort of asking ‘you’re OK?’ instead of ‘are you OK?’. But in French, we take it to the next step…
If you’ve studied how to ask questions in French, you know it’s very common in modern spoken French to just end a statement with a question tone, hence transforming this statement as a question. Well, we do that a lot in the context of asking ‘how are you’ in French.
Here are a few common examples – they don’t translate exactly as ‘how are you’ but convey the same feeling, and may be used instead of ‘how are you’ in France.
- Ça va bien ?
Things are OK?
- Tu vas bien ?
You’re doing OK?
- Tout se passe bien (avec ton boulot) ?
Everything good (with work)?
- Qu’est-ce qui se passe dans ta vie ?
What’s going on in your life ?
- Raconte-moi un peu ce qui se passe pour toi…
Tell me a bit what’s up with you
If you wanted to check on somebody’s health or state of mine, you could ask:
- Ça va ?
You’re doing OK?
- Ça ne va pas ?
Is something wrong?
- Qu’est-ce qu’il-y-a ?
What’s going on?
- Qu’est-ce qui se passe ?
What’s going on?
- Qu’est-ce qui ne va pas ?
- Comment vous sentez-vous ?
How are you (feeling) – used if someone is sick, or recovering…
More about being sick in France.
Now let’s see a neat expression to ask “what’s up” in French.
How to Say “What’s Up” in French?
To ask ‘what’s up?’ in French we say “Quoi de neuf”. Make sure you play the audio to listen to the glided pronunciation. This is obviously colloquial, and we use it a lot nowadays.
Now let’s see how to reply to ‘how are you’ in French
Answering ‘How Are You’ in French
There are so many ways to answer ‘how are you in French’…
I’ll just make a list of common examples! But the most important thing I’d like to tell you: don’t be passive!! Return the question!
Someone asking ‘how are you’ expects a ‘how are you’ back!!
Can you imagine a situation when you ask someone ‘how are you’ and s/he answers ‘great’ and doesn’t ask you how you are? How rude!!
Unfortunately, students of French are so accustomed to being ‘fed’ all the questions that they don’t usually ask questions themselves… And their fear of speaking French maybe be seen as being rude.
So, when asking ‘how are you’ in France, start with a quick round of “ça va”… just to make sure everybody is OK.
Then, engage the conversation more specifically – ask how something specific is doing “et ta fille, ça va mieux ?” (is your daughter doing better). You may at this point be interested in my article on French conversation starters.
13 Ways to answer ‘how are you’ in French
- Je vais bien. Et vous ?
I’m fine, and you? (using vous)
- Ça va, et toi ?
I’m fine and you? (using tu)
- Et toi ?
And you (tu)?
- Et vous ?
And you (vous)?
- Bien, merci. Et toi, ça va le travail ?
OK, thanks. What about you? How’s work.
- Ça va pas mal, et toi ?
It’s going. And you? (tu)
- Je ne peux pas me plaindre…
I can’t complain…
- Ça pourrait être pire…
It could be worse…
Then you may want to hint in your answer that you’d like to share more… That you have something on your mind… Wether it’s negative or positive, these answer would prompt your interlocutor to ask for more.
- Ça va comme-ci, comme-ça…
I’m doing so so, I’m struggling a bit…
- Chez nous, c’est pas le top en ce moment.
For us, things are not great right now.
- Je ne vais vraiment pas bien.
I’m really not good.
- J’ai la pêche !
I feel great – more ways to say I feel great in French.
- Super !
If someone says that to you, you’re suppose to ask for more. You need to go beyond ‘how are you’.
Beyond ‘how are you’
To ask someone to explain why they are doing poorly or great, we have one very useful expression.
Qu’est-ce qui se passe ?
What’s going on?
Make sure you play the audio since that one is pretty glided in modern spoken French.
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