Imagine you leave your French friends after sharing a drink with them, youâve already said goodbye in French, and now want to add âhave a good nightâ in French.
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Youâve learned in your French studies that ânightâ was âla nuitâ in French. So you prepare your sentence, place the irregular adjective before the noun, do the agreement (kiddos!!), and wish them a confident âbonne nuitâ⊠and they all start laughing.
What went wrong?
How to Say Good night in French?
To answer this, we need to compare the intent behind âgood nightâ in French and in English.
Good night in English
In English, it is quite common to say âgood nightâ as in âenjoy the rest of the nightâ, the night here referring mostly to the social evening.
Good night in French
Well, the good news is that itâs common to do this in French as well.
The bad news is that you canât translate literally.
In French, thereâs a different expression used for hoping that someone will enjoy the rest of their social night, and it doesnât involve the word ânightâ.
If you translated âgood nightâ literally in French youâd get âbonne nuitâ. Pronounce it like [bun nwee].
Unfortunately, âbonne nuitâ means âsleep wellâ. Itâs what you say to someone before they go to bedâŠ. đ€
Before leaving someone who is going to bed, the French usually say : âbonne nuitâ: have a good nightâs sleep.
We may add âfais/faites de beaux rĂȘvesâ: sweet dreams!
You imagine that if you were to say âbonne nuitâ to someone who is going out for the night; it may come as a surprise⊠And surprise is often met with laughter.
Theyâre not laughing at you. Theyâre laughing because you said something unexpected, something that got lost in translation.
Please donât take it personally, laughter is only a human response to surprise. It may not be a pleasant experience to feel laughed at but itâs likely there will be many occasions in your French journey that youâll make a fool of yourself. Trust me, Iâve been there many times in English! So better grow a thicker skin right now and learn to laugh with everybody.
So if âhave a good nightâ is not âbonne nuitâ, then what should you say?
Have a Good Night in French = Bonne Soirée
When wishing someone a good night as a pleasant evening, you should say âBonne soirĂ©eâ.
âUne soirĂ©eâ is an evening span. You could say:
- Bonne soirée
Have a good evening - Passe/ passez une bonne soirée
Have a good evening - Je te/vous souhaite une bonne soirée
Literally, I wish you to have a good evening
If you are relating your evening, you could say:
- Jâai passĂ© une (trĂšs) bonne soirĂ©e avec Pierre
I had/enjoyed a (very) good evening with Pierre.
or on the contrary
- Quelle mauvaise soirĂ©e ! Jâai vraiment passĂ© une soirĂ©e nulle avec PierreâŠ
What an unpleasant evening! I really had a bad time with Pierre.
Note that in French, âune soirĂ©eâ is also a party. Of course the French would associate evening time with partying, right?
When To Use âBonsoirâ in French?
Wait! What about âbonsoirâ? Can you use âbonsoirâ to say âgood nightâ in French?
Yes you can. But âbonsoirâ is more of a greeting, or way to say hello in French when you arrive somewhere in the evening, or sometimes âgoodbyeâ when you leave in the evening.
Originally, of course âbonsoirâ does mean âbon soirâ = âgood eveningâ. But now, itâs rather âflatâ: you are not really expressing the notion of âI wish you a pleasant eveningâ â youâre just saying âhiâ or âbyeâ using an appropriate expression for the time of the day.
In Short
Here is what you should memorize to avoid faux pas.
- Bonsoir = hi or bye in the evening đ
- Bonne soirĂ©e = have a pleasant evening đ»đșđ
- Bonne nuit = enjoy a good night sleep / sleep well đŽ
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